Dr. Contessa Metcalfe left the show! Her wiki-bio, net worth, cancer?, controversy, husband & kids.

From a young age, Contessa Metcalfe has been involved in every activity imaginable. As a young kid, Contessa was involved in a host of activities including debutante to cheerleader and being crowned as her high school homecoming queen. The trait has perfectly transitioned into her professional career. Now, Contessa is a doctor, entrepreneur, army veteran, traveler, and many more. Over the years, Contessa has worked tirelessly for her career. Inspired by her desire to work for more, Contessa is always looking forward to new opportunities. While she may not find opportunities around every career, it has certainly inspired her to work for more.

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Upbringing & Family

Contessa Direan Gray, born on June 4, 1976, in Kansas, Missouri, is the middle child of Gerald Gray Sr and a postal worker who died of breast cancer. Her siblings are Mishon Douglas, an older sister, and Gerald Gray II, a younger brother and lawyer. She later became Contessa Metcalfe after marriage.

Contessa Metcalfe married to medicine
Contessa Metcalfe from Married to Medicine

Contessa Metcalfe was a bright and spirited girl who grew up in Kansas City, Missouri. She had a passion for learning and exploring new things, and she excelled in various activities such as debate, tennis, cheerleading and more. She was also popular among her peers and was crowned as her high school homecoming queen.

She pursued her passion for medicine at Xavier University of Louisiana, where she earned her undergraduate degree in psychology/pre-medicine. She then attended St. Louis University School of Medicine, where she graduated as a doctor.

However, Dr. Metcalfeā€™s career path took an unexpected turn when she decided to join the Navy after medical school. She said she answered her call to patriotism and also wanted to overcome her familyā€™s financial troubles. She learned to fly and traveled the world as a flight surgeon, serving her country with honor and courage.

Professional Career

After completing her residency training at the National Naval Medical Center and Meharry Medical College, Dr. Metcalfe settled in Atlanta, where she established herself as a successful entrepreneur. She owns Chastain Integrative Medicine, a clinic that specializes in medical aesthetics, preventive, occupational and addiction medicine. She is also co-owner of Hauteā€™ Doc Nutraceuticals, a supplier of high-quality vitamins and supplements. In addition, she works as a pharmacovigilance physician for a major pharmaceutical company, ensuring the safety and efficacy of drugs.

Dr. Metcalfe is not only a businesswoman, but also a celebrity. She joined the cast of Bravoā€™s ā€œMarried to Medicineā€ in 2017, a reality show that follows the lives of female doctors and doctorsā€™ wives in Atlanta. She has shared her personal and professional struggles and triumphs with millions of viewers, showcasing her authenticity and vulnerability. She has also used her platform to advocate for criminal justice reform and health equity, especially in marginalized communities and veterans. Since her debut, she regularly appeared on the show before leaving at the end of season 9 in 2022.


Dr. Contessaā€™s marriage has been the source of much controversy and drama on the show, as she and her husband have faced several challenges and rumors over the years. In season eight of the show, which aired in 2021, Dr. Contessa and Dr. Scott documented their marital issues on camera, amid allegations of infidelity and lack of communication. At the end of the season, it was revealed by Quad Webb, one of her co-stars that Dr. Contessa had filed for legal separation from her husband.

In season nine of the show, which premiered in 2022, Dr. Contessa and Dr. Scott surprised the viewers by announcing that they had reconciled and decided to stay together after working through their problems. Dr. Contessa also credited reality television for saving her marriage, saying that it forced them to have tough conversations and be vulnerable. However, she also clashed with another co-star, Dr. Heavenly Kimes, who had made negative comments about her marriage on her YouTube channel.

In March 2023, it was reported that Dr. Contessa had quit ā€œMarried to Medicineā€ ahead of season 10, along with another cast member, Anila Sajja. According to sources, Dr. Contessa wanted to focus on her family and her business ventures and was tired of the drama on the show. It was also reported that former ā€œReal Housewives of Atlantaā€ star Phaedra Parks would join the show as a new cast member.

Dr. Contessa Metcalfeā€™s controversies have made her one of the most talked-about personalities on ā€œMarried to Medicineā€, and have also attracted a lot of attention from fans and critics alike. Whether she will return to the show in the future remains to be seen, but for now, she seems to be enjoying her life away from the cameras.

Feud With Dr. Heavenly Kimes

Dr. Contessa Metcalfe used to be close friends with “Married to Medicine” co-star Dr. Havenly Kimes but their relationship later turned sour. The main source of conflict between Dr. Contessa and Dr. Heavenly is Dr. Heavenlyā€™s YouTube channel, where she often comments on her cast matesā€™ personal and professional issues. Dr. Contessa felt that Dr. Heavenly was being disrespectful and intrusive when she talked about her marriage with Dr. Scott Metcalfe, which was going through a rough patch. Dr. Contessa also accused Dr. Heavenly of spreading a rumor that another cast member, Quad Webb, sleeps with married men.

Dr. Heavenly defended herself by saying that she was only giving her honest opinion and trying to help Dr. Contessa with her marital problems. She claimed that Dr. Contessa had “misplaced anger” for her and was projecting her own insecurities onto her.

The tension between the two doctors escalated into a heated argument at a group dinner, where they exchanged insults and had to be restrained by their friends. The drama continued on social media, where they threw more shade at each other and blocked each other.

The feud has affected not only their friendship but also their relationships with other cast members, who have been caught in the middle of their drama. Some of them have tried to mediate and reconcile them, while others have taken sides or stayed out of it.

Net Worth- How Rich is Dr. Contessa Metcalfe?

Dr. Contessa Metcalfe has an estimated net worth of $5 million as of 2023 which she amassed from her diversified professional career as a doctor, businessperson, and reality television actor. Among her list of properties and possessions, Dr. Contessa owns a luxurious house in Atlanta with her husband. The house has multiple bedrooms & bathrooms, a pool, a tennis court, and a spacious backyard. One of the most stunning features of the house is the kitchen, which Dr. Contessa renovated in 2021. She also owns a luxurious car.

Husband and Kids

Dr. Contessa is a married woman to her longtime husband Dr. Walter Scott Metcalfe. Both are successful doctors who have been married for 17 years. They first met at a medical conference that both of them were attending. Even though the pair hit it off quickly, they couldn’t meet as frequently as they would have liked. As a result, the pair had to stay in a long-distance relationship for quite a while. After dating for a couple of years, Contessa and Walter decided to tie the knot. Their wedding ceremony was held in 2005. In the years of conjugal life so far, they have given birth to three lovely children, Laila, Lauren, and London Metcalfe.

Dr. Contessa and Dr. Scott’s relationship has been through many ups and downs, as they struggled to balance their careers, family, and personal issues. The marriage trouble was evident on the reality show ā€œMarried to Medicineā€ where they appeared together. According to their co-star, Quad Webb the marriage was on the verge of divorce who revealed that Dr. Contessa had filed for legal separation from Dr. Scott. But in a surprising turn of events, the couple managed to save their marriage and reconcile.

In addition to the personal relationship, Dr. Contessa and her husband come together in a business and run a joint medical practice, where Dr. Contessa specializes in occupational and preventive medicine, while Dr. Scott is a family doctor.

Dr. Contessa and Dr. Scott have proven that marriage is not easy, but it is worth fighting for. They have also shown that reality television can be a blessing in disguise, as it can help them heal and reconnect with each other.

Health Problem- Cancer?

Dr. Contessa lost her mother to breast cancer at a young age and witnessed her father battle colon cancer who was suffering in 2018. She knew she had a high risk of developing the same disease that claimed her motherā€™s life, and she decided to take action.

She underwent a double mastectomy in May 2018, a surgery that removes both breasts, to reduce her chances of getting breast cancer. She did not test positive for BRCA, a gene mutation that increases the risk of breast and ovarian cancers, but she had other factors that made her worry. She had irregular mammograms, cysts that needed biopsies, and a family history of aggressive cancers.

She chose to have the surgery for her peace of mind. She wanted to stop living in fear and uncertainty. She wanted to be there for her children and husband. She wanted to live her life to the fullest.

She also chose to have reconstruction surgery at the same time as her mastectomy, so she could have new breasts that looked natural and beautiful. She was happy with the outcome and felt more confident in her body.

Physical Traits & Dressing Style

Dr. Contessa Metcalfe is a striking woman who exudes confidence and elegance. She stands at 5 feet 6 inches tall, with a slender and athletic physique. Her hair is dark brown and has experimented with different hairstyles over the years, such asĀ bobs, bangs, waves, and braids.Ā Her latest hairstyle featuresĀ long, wispy bangsĀ and aĀ lighter chestnut hue.Ā She has an oval face, expressive brown eyes, and full lips that often curve into a smile. Her skin is smooth and radiant, with a warm caramel tone.

Dr. Contessa dresses in a sophisticated and chic manner, favoring tailored suits, dresses, and skirts in neutral or pastel colors. She accessorizes with tasteful jewelry, such as pearls, diamonds, or gold. She always looks polished and professional, but also feminine and graceful.

Zodiac and Personality Traits

Dr.Contessa Metcalfe is a Gemini, born on June 4, 1976. As a Gemini, she is known for being adaptable, intelligent, curious, and communicative.Ā She has a diverse range of interests and talents, from being a doctor who owns her own medical concierge service called Acute Face MD to being a reality star who joined the cast of Married To Medicine during the showā€™s fifth season. She has also served as a flight surgeon in the U.S.Ā Navy, where she learned how to fly planes.

Dr.Contessa Metcalfe is also a family-oriented person who shares three children with her husband Scott.Ā She enjoys traveling and riding motorcycles and was a cheerleader and homecoming queen at her high school. She is friendly, outgoing and charming, and can easily connect with different kinds of people. She is also ambitious, driven and independent, and likes to challenge herself and learn new things.

However, as a Gemini, Dr.Contessa Metcalfe may also have some drawbacks in her personality. She may be restless, inconsistent, indecisive and superficial at times. She may have trouble sticking to one thing or committing to long-term goals. She may also be prone to gossiping, exaggerating or changing her mind frequently. She may have difficulty balancing her personal and professional life, and may sometimes neglect her own needs or emotions.

Wiki/Bio Facts

NameDr. Contessa Metcalfe
OccupationDoctor, reality TV personality, businesswoman, ex-navy
Known forBeing one of the main cast members of the Bravo reality TV series, ā€˜Married to Medicineā€™
Age47 years old (as of 2023)
Date of birthJune 4, 1976
Place of birthKansas City
EducationBachelorā€™s degree from Xavier University, medical degree from St.Ā Louis University
Marital StatusMarried
SpouseDr. Scott Metcalfe (m. 2005)
ChildrenLauren, Laila, and Landon
Net worthEstimated at $5 million (as of 2023)
Military serviceUS Navy as a flight surgeon
Health issuesMastectomy after having abnormal mammograms for over ten years and losing her mother to breast cancer

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